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**Don't complain about others,
(别投诉别人)
****Change yourself if you want peace.
(改变自己如果要平静)
**Easy is to judge the mistake of others,
(容易看到或批评别人的过错)
****Difficult is to recognise our own mistake.
(往往看不到或承认自己的过错)
**If a problem can be solved,
(如果问题能解决)
****No need to worry about it,
(不用太过担忧)
**If a problem cannot be solved,
(如果问题不能解决)
****What is the use of worrying.
(担忧也没用)
事情总有解决的方法，处事不能太偏激，不要伤害自己，
要勇敢面对和承担，谁对谁错，不是太重要，
如哥哥说，大家都是一家人，没有什么东西是不能解决的，记得要静心平气的和家人商量！
如果不好好商量，我们都不懂大家在想什么，
所以，家人也应该好好沟通，
避免大家心里不愉快，
我希望大家和平共处。
3 comments:
Anyway, its good that you know the way you release your tension & stress. In this world, human can not avoid the stress & dairy problem although you are rich people or poor man.
We won't feel surprise as the rich people may have more stresses & problem than the poor!
We may feel appreciate & humble as we are still healthy & good.
珍惜眼前人，健康 才最重要！不然，再多的钱财也于事无补！
记得，人谁无错？知错能改才会得到别人的尊敬和认同！
哥
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展现应有的信心
成功者就是那些拥有 坚强信念 的普通人
成功的程度 决定于你自己的 信念程度
永远不要给自己的缺点所迷惑
信心多一份 成功多十分
做人应该要学会自信
~拿破仑。希尔
yeah, there is many positive ways to release tension as long as we didn't hurt ourself & others.
as mama said, when we are down & sad, we can buy something for ourself, a small gift, a sweet candy or chocolate can make me feel better. Never hurt urself & always thinking of ur family & friends are always be there for you.
last Saturday i go popo's house, i find it,popo house is a very warm home where i can share & chit chat with popo.Popo told me "once upon a time"that really true old story to me, it's really touching & a brilliant mother for nine daughters & sons.
She married at 18 years old & she raise up all her childrens by herself, by the times gong gong is addicted in gambling & didn't take care of them, all depends on popo herself,she borrow ten ringgit(by the times, ten ringgit worths more than hundred ringgit) from a kind people to sold sugarcane.
Thats how she raise up the whole family, no matter how difficult,she want all her children to be together.She will never let her children to any stranger.She know that mama reach the age to study & mama like to learn & study, she borrow RM1 for the school begin.
You can never think of the very very hard times they across & experienced. But mama still remember it very clearly,popo let her get in school althought a very difficult times. She study till standard 6 & force to discontinue his study cos'of others younger brothers & sister need to study also.
That's y mama is very respect & appreciate popo. After standard 6, she begin to work, earn RM5, give RM6 to home, why extra RM1, cos that RM1 is her own saving.
Mama always tought us to appreciate & cherish our family & friends.
As a daughter & son, thats the responsible that we should need to do. Many peoples said they have no money, "no money", "u can earn mah", think of ways to do partime jobs or planning other else for your future. Don't just blaming that ur family didn't give u the best or support u for further study or anything else.
Take a look back to our popo's time & take a look on ourself, we are consider very lucky to born during these time.
Our parents didn't afford to let us for further study, then we can work partime & study partime.Gege & me also study partime & work full time job, althought how difficult, we didn't blame anyone.
We use our own effort to do all those things.
I just want to said, we can't blame anyone, if we want, we can change our future by change ourself.Putting more effort & harworking to earn more money.
我们不要活在过去，也不是活在未来，而是活在现在。不要为过去感到苦恼，也不要太担心未来，一切都会迎刃而解。
加油吧！让我们大家一起努力的把事情解决。从现在开始，开心的，努力的过生活。
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